Category: Speaking

They Let An Impostor Speak at PASS Summit?

They Let An Impostor Speak at PASS Summit?

Earlier this week the folks at PASS reached out to last year’s speakers asking us to share a story of how speaking at PASS impacted us professionally or personally. The first idea that popped into my head was to blog about how speaking at PASS Summit lends you a bit of unique professional credibility in the SQL Server/Microsoft Data Platform world – because it absolutely does. That said, I figured a lot of folks would blog, tweet, or make videos around exactly that subject and likely handle it more creatively that I would have. So, while speaking at PASS Summit has definitely had a positive impact on me professionally, I decided to blog about what I believe the biggest impact of my speaking at PASS Summit 2017 has been – a weapon I can use to battle impostor syndrome. I saw myself as the impostor I mentioned in the title of this blog.

If you’re unfamiliar with impostor syndrome, it is described (via Wikipedia) as “…a concept describing individuals who are marked by an inability to internalize their accomplishments and a persistent fear of being exposed as a “fraud””. As I’ve been fortunate enough to get to know more and more people in the SQL community over the last few years, I realize that many, if not most, speakers suffer from impostor syndrome. This is true for both first-time speakers and even speakers who would all consider “rockstars” in the community. I remember sitting in a speaker room at a SQL Saturday last year and hearing one of the presenters wonder aloud (as they left the room to give their session) “Is this the day these people figure out I have no idea what I’m talking about?”. I’ve certainly battled this and, while it’s gratifying to realize others struggle with this, that’s not necessarily particular helpful to keeping that “impostor” voice quiet!

When I received the email that I had been selected to speak at PASS Summit 2017 I was sitting with my kids as they finished some homework. They were initially quite alarmed when I screamed and ran down the hallway with my arms in the air. Once I came back to them and explained why I was so excited they looked at me with blank stares for a while until my son said “so people are actually going to pay to hear you talk?”. He was shocked! That was also when it really began to sink in for me what a big deal this was going to be.

While I am always incredibly gratified and humbled when I’m selected to speak at any event, my previous speaking experience has been confined to SQL Saturdays and user groups. Those are wonderful opportunities but, as I often joke at the beginning of my sessions, “you are guaranteed to get your money’s worth from me” because those events are free to attend. If I disappointed an attendee at one of those (and I’m sure I have), I haven’t cost them any money.

While people often describe Summit as a “massive SQL Saturday”, the fact that people were spending their own (or their company’s) hard-earned money to attend ratcheted up the pressure for me. That said, once the talk was complete and I had fielded questions (and some compliments) from the folks that attended, that pressure transformed into some measure of validation. The fact that people spent money to be there and that 60-70 of them took the time to attend and applaud my talk was validating and invigorating to me. Now, when that impostor syndrome voice on my head gets louder, I can remind it that I spoke at PASS Summit. And I hope do it again to keep that voice at bay!

Coast to Coast in the Next 30 Days!

Coast to Coast in the Next 30 Days!

It would be an understatement to say that I’m excited about this month in my SQL community life. While I have multiple submissions out to European conferences in the first half of 2018, this month’s highlights are two confirmed speaking engagements that I have: SQL Saturday Charlotte on October 14th and PASS Summit on November 3rd.

As my previous post mentioned, I used to live just south of Charlotte and haven’t been back in years, so I’m looking forward to seeing some friends in the area along with meeting and reconnecting with more #sqlfamily.

While Charlotte is going to be a great event (and you should definitely register here), the coolest thing to happen this month will be my PASS Summit speaking debut on Friday, November 3 at 11 AM local time. I’m incredibly proud to have been selected to speak at Summit and am looking forward to unveiling new elements and new demos during my “Where Should My Data Live (and Why)?” session.

This session is all about trying to open more traditional database administrator’s eyes to the opportunities that cloud platforms and technologies give them to leverage and extend their existing on-premises implementations and deployments. I look forward to sharing what I know and learning from the crowd about their own experiences so I can improve this talk in the future as I continue to speak and our data professional world continues to evolve. Hope to see you in Eastern time or Pacific time in the next 30 days!

SQL Saturday Charlotte – I’m Speaking!

SQL Saturday Charlotte – I’m Speaking!

I’m excited to announce that I’m speaking at SQL Saturday Charlotte (#683) on Saturday, October 14, 2017! I’ll be speaking on the final time slot of the day and giving a new talk of mine – “Where Should My Data Live (and Why)?”.

I’m really excited about this opportunity for a couple reasons. First, any opportunity to attend a SQL Saturday means I’m guaranteed to learn something, whether it’s a technical fact, a presenting tip, or something else. I think SQL Saturdays are, hands down, the finest free technical training available in the data professional community. Secondly, I used to live near Charlotte (Fort Mill, SC) so that weekend should be a great opportunity to get caught up with both professional colleagues and old friends who call the Charlotte area home. I haven’t been to Charlotte since PASS Summit 2013 – it will be great to get back!

Click here to register – and I can’t wait to see you at SQL Saturday Charlotte on 10/14!

 

 

SQL Saturday Louisville – I’m Speaking!

SQL Saturday Louisville – I’m Speaking!

As readers of the blog know, the last few weeks have been quite hectic in the racing side of my life, so I apologize for the delay in this announcement, but I’m thrilled to announce that I’ve been accepted to speak at SQL Saturday Louisville on August 5th. This will be my fourth SQL Saturday presentation this year (following Cleveland, NYC, and Atlanta). That was a personal goal of mine for 2017 and I am incredibly appreciative of being selected for four SQL Saturdays this year. It means a lot, especially to be selected for my “hometown” SQL Saturday (I hail from Lexington, KY, about an hour from the SQL Saturday Louisville venue).

SQL Saturday Louisville was my first SQL Saturday presentation last year, so it’s cool to bring it full circle and present a new session – “How To Keep Your Database Servers Out of the News” – a year later. I’m excited to give this presentation to a PASS event, as I’ve made a lot of changes to it after its initial creation last year. It’s certainly a subject whose importance increases as time goes on, so I look forward to giving the talk and getting the feedback from the audience.

Beyond me, the speaker’s list for this year’s edition of SQL Saturday Louisville is fantastic. As always, there will be lots of good information disseminated on a wide variety of data platform topics and the presenters are a who’s who of SQL Server and Microsoft data platform experts. If I’ve piqued your curiosity, click here to register for the event.

This year’s event also features three outstanding pre-cons – the information on those can be found in the middle of this page. While all three sessions will be outstanding, I’ll be attending my buddy Josh Luedeman’s (b|t) pre-con on “Building Your Modern Data Architecture”. I had the good fortune to work with Josh before he moved to Microsoft and I’m really looking forward to this session.

I can’t recommend this year’s edition of SQL Saturday Louisville enough. If the outstanding speaker list and great pre-cons haven’t convinced you, don’t forget that here in Kentucky we have delicious, delicious bourbon. Bourbon and free SQL Server training – what a great way to spend a Saturday! Hope to see you there!

SQL Saturday #652 (Atlanta) – I’m Speaking!

SQL Saturday #652 (Atlanta) – I’m Speaking!

Usually my view of Atlanta is quite similar to the image above – as a Delta Medallion member and frequent traveler I see the airport in Atlanta quite a bit. That said, I’m thrilled to announce that I’ll be speaking at SQL Saturday 652 in Atlanta on Saturday, July 15. If you haven’t registered, they’re getting closer and closer to capacity so please register here before it’s too late!

I’m looking forward to ramping up my blogging next month, but the current priority is prepping my race car for its debut at the Indianapolis Motor Speedway in a little over two weeks at the Open Wheel World Challenge. Please forgive the brevity of this blog, but rest assured both the technical and racing content on this blog will ramp up quite a bit in the next several weeks. For now, go register for SQL Saturday Atlanta if you’re in the area and I hope to see you either there or at Indy!

SQL Saturday NYC (588) – I’m Speaking!

SQL Saturday NYC (588) – I’m Speaking!

I’m excited to announce that I’ll be speaking at this year’s edition of SQL Saturday New York City (#588) on May 20th! From a personal perspective, it’s fair to say that attending the 2015 edition of SQL Saturday NYC changed my professional life and it’s meaningful to not only be able to attend this year’s event, but to actually be on the speaking roster with so many people who have influenced my career, if only from blogs and books. I look forward to meeting them in person (and you as well).

This year’s speaking roster is absolutely outstanding (despite my presence dragging down the average!) and I cannot recommend highly enough registering for the event. It will fill up, and you absolutely won’t want to miss out on this day of free training from a who’s who of SQL community rockstars. Come for the speakers, make sure you visit the sponsors, and network with your fellow Microsoft data platform professionals. It may change your professional life, as it did mine.

Although I never need an excuse to visit the Greatest City in the World, those of you who may not be local would be well-served to submit a training request to attend this event. Not only do you get free Microsoft data platform training from some of the very best speakers in the community, you might get a night (or two) in a fantastic city as well.

Although the Empire State Building won’t be lit up to honor my Clemson Tigers (as it was in the image above), I can’t wait to get to New York, see old friends, make new ones, and present my Top 5 Always On Availability Group Tips session. I hope it helps you save a few sleepless nights and improves the care and feeding of your Always On Availability Groups. I’ll see you in May!

SQL Saturday #595 – I’m Speaking!

SQL Saturday #595 – I’m Speaking!

While I cannot promise that my session this Saturday will be nearly as exciting as LeBron’s block in last year’s Game 7 of the NBA Finals, I am honored to say that I’ll be speaking at SQL Saturday #595 this Saturday in Cleveland, OH.

While my understanding is that the event is at capacity, given the vagaries of Midwestern weather there may be a few late cancellations. If there are, and you’re on the wait list, you’ll get in to see an awesome day of free, live training from some of the SQL Server community’s foremost experts and speakers…and I have a session as well. 😉 Go ahead and register here if you’re interested or just take a look at the sessions here.

I’ll be presenting my Top 5 Tips to Keep AlwaysOn Always Humming and Users Happy session. I’ve presented this as a webinar for Pragmatic Works and as a SQL Saturday session and it’s been well received. The tips are derived from real mistakes that I’ve made or that I’ve seen made so I think the real world information can be a big help, especially if you’re new to designing and maintaining Always On Availability Groups. I hope to see you there this Saturday!